Saturday, October 10, 2009

Femdom Catches Slave Jerking

Randy from Femdombride.com could not be in any more trouble! He was caught browsing porn on the net with his dick out and his hand frantically jerking it by his Goddess and wife Starla. Goddess Starla, rightfully so, gets extremely upset and angry at Randy. Not only is this a breach of their agreement to live by the ideals of female supremacy but it also a huge breach of Starla’s trust. I personally, have never been caught by my Mistress. That’s not to say that I masturbate without permission, but there may have been a couple of mishaps when I first started living this lifestyle! to read more just visit insidefemdom.com

Orgasm control

Typically, The Dominant Will Give slow, Gentle And Steady Physical Stimulation To His Submissive's Clit Or Vaginal Area, The Gradual Stimilation Will Bring Your submissive To The Brink Of Almost Having An Orgasm, Then Start To Reduce The Stimulation, So That Your Submissive Does Not Actually Have An Orgasm, But Is Made To "Hold It. Wait A Few Moments For The Tension To Be Relaxed, For Your Submissive To Come Back From The Edge So To Speak. Then Repeat The Stimulation, After A Few Times of repeating This procedure, Your Submissives Need To Orgasm Shall Be Overwhelming.

By Carefully Varying The Intensity Of The Stimulation, The submissive Is The Kept In A High State Of Arousal. Kept In This Highly State Of Arousal For Even A Short Period Of Time Can Induce, An Euphoric State Of Pleasure. The Feeling Of Control Is Immense, Soon With Enough Familiarity You Will Be Able To Read Your Submissive's Responses To Get The Intensity And Timing Just Right. The prcoess Is Slow And Much Patience And Support is required, You Will Need To Monitor Your Submissive Closely For The Results You Are Hoping To Achieve.

Be Consistent In Your Training Keeping Your Submissive In The Highly Aroused State For Long Extended Periods Of Time Is Also Known As Orgasm Denial. The Submissive Is Repeatedly Teased To The Brink Of Orgasm, Causing Her Feelings Of Desperation For Relief. How Long You Wish To Deny Your Submissive Orgasm Release, Is Up To Each Individual Dominant, Some Will Prefer To Hear The Begging And Crying For Longer Periods Of Time.

For The Best Results Lock The Toy Box Or Use Restraints To Keep Your Submissive From Touching Herself, And Causing Herself To Orgasm. Remember She Orgasms At Your Command, She Has No Control On How Or When She May Be Allowed To Orgasm. She Has Given Up Her Right To Have An Orgasm, Your In Control. A Post Scene Punishment/Reward System May be Useful In Encouraging Your Submissive To Try Her Best To Reach Her Goal.

Not Stopping The Stimulation Forcing Your Submissive To Orgasm Many Times Over And Over Is Called "Forced Orgasms". It Is Common To Force Orgasms On Your Submissive, In Preparation For A Orgasm Denial Scene.

Eris Aurum as my favorite mistress

Mistress Eris Aurum is always been my favorite mistress she knows how to dominate a submissive slave the way mistress should be dominated. Cuckold, facesitting, torture pain and other femdom method thats how mistress eris pleasure her slave. On the other hand having mistress eris as a mistress is every slaves fantasy and dream having a beautiful and horny mistress that knows how to punish her slave are the traits that you can see inside mistress eris. if you want to know more about her you can see her profile and videos at insidefemdom.com or femdomin8.com

When Mistress isnt prefect

Somewhere along the line, perhaps in the online land of fantasy/roleplay* the idea has arisen in the minds of some that Dommes are never to be questioned. We're always right - even when we are wrong. While I love the thought of always being right (smiles), let's be realistic. No one is ever always right. On occasion we are going to be so totally wrong that we will surprise you ;)

So... what does a good submissive do in a situation like this? Hopefully, the two of you have discussed this possibility before it occurs and you know just how your Lady would wish you to proceed. If you haven't, I'd suggest a few things to consider:

1. Think before you speak. Take time to make certain *you* are not the person in the wrong. If after due consideration you still believe she is wrong, then decide how to best approach her. Every Domme is different. I'm pretty laid back about most everything but even I don't like the blunt approach. Be tactful :)

2. Make certain your motive for doing this isn't to belittle or demean her or to try to make you look better than her. She'll likely be able to see through the situation and identify any underlying motives.

3. Keep your emotions in check. Emotions are often mirrored so proceeding when you are angry or resentful will likely thwart your efforts.

4. Develop a strong case. You know she is wrong because of a, b, and c.

5. Request permission to discuss the situation with her. "I noticed this and I'm concerned about it. Could we please talk about it?" Be careful not to approach the topic at a wrong time (like when she first gets home from work).

6. Be solution-oriented. If all you are doing is complaining, you're not being a helpful submissive. Offer the solutions if she asks for them.

7. Say something nice. If you're going to criticize anyone a good rule of thumb is to begin with a sincere compliment, offer the criticism, then end with a sincere compliment. (Not all in the same sentence of course.) "I know you are someone who likes to always do her best so I thought that this might be something you would like to take a look at."

8. Be sure and listen to her response. It's likely that she isn't the only person in this situation who needs to evaluate their actions/words ;)

Most of all, be tactful and respectful of her feelings. Hearing we've made a mistake isn't easy for a lot of people but it's necessary for growth both as an individual and in relationships.

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